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BDSM / KINK SESSIONS

BOOKING DETAILS

 

The minimum session length I offer is 90 minutes for $450. You are welcome to combine the session offerings below to create a longer session, tailored to your desires and boundaries. Relax into the experience and enjoy it while feeling safe and seen.


To hold the appointment, I require a deposit of $100. If you need to cancel with at least 48 hours' notice, your deposit will be fully refunded. For my security, I also request a photo of yourself and a phone number to contact you. 


To start booking a session, please email me at the address below. All intake is done via email only.


Please note that same-day appointments are not available for first-time clients.
 

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Below is a listing of experiences that I offer in our studio/dungeon. These descriptions are the general format of the session and together we’ll customize it to include only the parts you want. Please be sure to read my BDSM philosophy about doing this work BEFORE you read these descriptions. That background will help you understand these sessions a bit more fully and what we're trying to accomplish. If you don’t see something similar to the experience you are seeking, drop me a line and together we’ll create the experience that works for both of us.

 THE  FIRE  ESCAPE 

This session is the highlight of all my offerings. With a duration of 4 - 6 hours, we have ample time to enjoy each other's company and create an amazing experience together. You get to choose the activities that we'll engage in during our time together. You can mix and match any of the sessions listed below, or we can simply hang out and see where our desires lead us. Perhaps you have a fantasy that you'd like to bring to life. This session is perfect for exploring that type of sensual play. In this version of The Escape, we can include BDSM and kink play.

If you are interested in using cannabis, we can start this session by ingesting some edibles. This will allow enough time for the effects to take place without the need to operate heavy machinery. Since edibles are legal here, I am delighted to be able to include them as part of my offerings. Additionally, we can use flower for smoking. I have various toys available exclusively for these sessions to make them playful and enjoyable.

Current rate   $1000 for 4 hours

                             $1500 for 6 hours

 SUBMIT 
 

In this session, you will do as the title suggests: SUBMIT. This experience will be my version of the classic Dom/sub scene. We will discuss your desires, boundaries, skill levels, and how you hope the session will proceed. I will take all of that information and craft an experience for us both. Within our mutual boundaries, all things are possible in this session. Unlike the sessions listed below, there is no specific set of boundaries, and we can make it whatever we choose. The focus of this experience can be primarily on your pleasure, your pain, a mix of both, or you being of service to me in some form. If you do not see the experience you are seeking listed below, then this is the session you want so that we can create an experience that meets both of our needs.


Current rate $450 for 90 minutes
                           $600 for 2 hours
                           $900 for 3 hours

                           $1000 for 4 hours

 EROTIC  FLOGGING 

The flogging sessions that I offer are focused on the sensation and endorphin rush that follows. To increase the intensity of the impact and heighten the experience, I use a variety of floggers based on your experience level.

 

This session is perfect for those who want to explore this area or are fond of extended flogging sessions. It is not about domination or punishment, but rather about your willingness to explore the sensations. If desired, I am happy to remain clothed during the experience to help you feel more comfortable and safe. My goal is to create a safe environment where you can push through and release your fears while exploring your desires.

If flogging is new to you and you are curious, please take a few minutes to read this posting on my blog which talks in more depth about the healing potential for flogging and how it works.

Current rate $450 for 90 minutes
                           $600 for 2 hours

 FLOGGERSSAGE  (pronounced like "flogger & massage" combined)

Floggerssage is an unparalleled massage experience, exclusively offered by me because I invented it. This experience is designed to awaken your body in a way that you have never felt before. It is not about pain, but rather about sensations. Utilizing a wide variety of floggers, I make contact with every part of your body while you lie on the massage table. Through rhythmic pounding and the occasional surprise impact, I can help you bring your awareness into every part of your body.

This session is an excellent choice for those who tend to be "too in their head" or disconnected from their body. You will be amazed at how invigorated your body will feel after experiencing Floggerssage. It also serves as a perfect warm-up to assplay, more intense flogging, or even a soothing and relaxing massage. Moreover, it is a great stand-alone session that leaves no marks on your body. Try this unique session for yourself and see why my clients are buzzing about it.

Current rate $450 for 90 minutes
                           $600 for 2 hours

 ELECTRIFY 

For those ready to explore or deepen their experience with electric play, I have created this session with electricity as the focus. The session will begin with external electricity from the Neon Wand, which uses static electricity to stimulate the nerves without causing harm, even at full intensity with the smallest tip.

Once you're charged up from the Neon Wand, I'll move on to one of my Estim powerboxes for some amazing internal sensations. This device delivers electrical current in preprogrammed patterns through a range of attachments, including electric butt plugs, sticky pads for external areas, a prostate probe, cock bands, and bi-polar nipple clamps.

 

Many people fear electric play because they believe it will hurt, but the sensations are actually amazing and intense without being painful. To truly understand the pleasure potential of this device, it takes about an hour to move through all the patterns with a slow increase in intensity.

Current rate $450 for 90 minutes
                           $600 for 2 h
ours

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 SENSASSAGE  (sensation + massage)

For those seeking a sensation-based experience that combines flogging and electric play, this session is perfect for you. It begins with the Floggerssage session described above, but only applied to the back of your body. When you roll over, I will switch to the Neon Wand. This tool uses static electricity to stimulate your nerves. Despite being designed for sensual electric play, it never reaches a harmful or dangerous level, even at full intensity with the most intense tip.

As electric play can cause twitches and muscle spasms, I will need to restrain your arms and legs to prevent you from accidentally knocking the wand out of my hand. The feeling of helplessness only heightens the experience. Adding a blindfold will make this a truly orgasmic experience.

Current rate $450 for 90 minutes
                           $600 for 2 hours
                           $900 for 3 hours

                           $1000 for 4 hours

 FANTASY  FUN 

This session differs from the others in that it's dedicated to creating your ideal fantasy scenario. We can use the entire studio to bring your fantasy to life, including a variety of costumes and equipment for role play. Before the session begins, we'll discuss what you're looking for and what you'd like to include or exclude so that we can jump right into character when you arrive. Below are some examples of scenarios that I've either been a part of or that I'm open to exploring with you. This list is not comprehensive but rather intended to spark your creativity.

  • Doctor exam that gets out of control

  • Military style interrogation

  • College student sent to the Principal's office for punishment

  • Boss/Teacher/Therapist makes overt sexual advances

  • Coach helps work the sore muscles

  • "Legit" massage experience that gets wild

  • Straight guy “Forced bi” experience

  • TSA pat-down

  • Erotic feminization

  • Dad teaches son about service

  • Confession gone wrong

  • Card night with the buddies

  • Anonymous hook up

Please see my group rates if you

want additional guys

Current rate $450 for 90 minutes
                           $600 for 2 hours
                           $900 for 3 hours

                           $1000 for 4 hours

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 THE ORACLE 

I offer a variety of amazing, fun, and edgy experiences. Sometimes, clients have a hard time deciding what they want to explore because my studio is full of toys and tools, making the choices seem endless. To solve this, I've created a session that allows your consciousness to choose for you. I've made cards for everything in the studio and all the erotic activities I can think of and put them in a bag. Each card has a tool, experience, or action on it. The less intense ones, like cockrings, are in the bag multiple times, while the more intense items are repeated less. Additionally, there are 7 cards for free hours or discounts on future sessions. Currently, there are over 130 cards in the bag.

 

The Oracle rules are simple:

  1. You draw as many cards as you dare, one at a time, up to 10.

  2. You get three "passes" for when you pull something that you are not ready for.

  3. I have final say on each card, and I may choose to reject some based on various factors.

 

Once all of your cards are drawn, I'll take them and find a way to use them on you, do them to you, or have you do them during the session. This is a great session for guys who are already comfortable with me and are ready to push their limits a bit because you never know what card you'll draw. It's also fun for me because it requires some creativity to accommodate.

Current rate $450 for 90 minutes
                           $600 for 2 hours

                           $900 for 3 hours

                           $1000 for 4 hours

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 SENSATION EXPLORATION 

Sensations come in various forms and are interpreted by our minds as pleasurable, painful, soothing, irritating, mild, or intense, and ultimately judged as good or bad. This session offers you a chance to safely explore the sensations I will provide. When we begin, I will show you all the sensation-producing items and let you select which ones to include and exclude. The sequence, duration, and technique will be left to me.

 

To fully explore deeper levels of sensation, I encourage (but do not require) the use of a blindfold. This allows you to experience the sensations with senses other than your eyes, adding an extra layer of intensity to the session. By removing your ability to see what's coming, it allows you to stay open to the experience and focus solely on the sensations. Please note that none of the items used during the session will mark you or puncture the skin.

I also offer the option of being restrained. This allows you to fully surrender control and experience the deepest levels of this session. This is not a requirement but is highly recommended because even mild restraints keep you aware of your level of surrender, leading to a more intense stimulation and a powerful experience.

 

The items used during the session include common household items (known as "pervertables") or items specifically designed for the senses. The list of possible items to choose from includes hot oil, candles, clothespins, neon wand, water, ice, vibrators, feathers, a leather strap, floggers, pinwheels, essential oils for aroma, and of course, me. You are welcome to bring any items you want to experiment with, and only those items you choose will be used. If you'd like, I can finish the session with an erotic release, which is always a wonderful sensation! 

Current rate $450 for 90 minutes
                           $600 for 2 hours

                           $900 for 3 hours

                           $1000 for 4 hours

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