ANAL CLEANSING / DOUCHING
For those who are uneasy about assplay because of the fear that it won't be clean, a light enema will help to alleviate that fear. These directions are provided to help you have a cleaner feeling. This feeling will translate into you enjoying the anal play more because you will have a more confidence stance going in.
Please DO NOT use a chemical based enema. Those are harsh on the body and only necessary if you're constipated or it is required for a medical procedure. Fleet enema bottles however are a great cost effective option, easy to use, can be reused a few times or disposed. If you buy one of those, just pour the liquid down the toilet and refill it with room temperature water. The nozzle is slim and therefore easy to use even for beginners to assplay. The kit can be found at most any pharmacy. I purchase them in bulk sizes and have them at my studio for your use. If you'd like one, please just ask.
A better option is to purchase a reusable douche product where water is the liquid used. Using only water is more gentle to the body. These can be found in many shapes and sizes all around the web. They are called "enema bulbs" and can be found on Amazon. It's easy to fill, sturdy and easy to use. Be sure to pay attention to the nozzle size. Some are as thin as a pencil and others are rather thick.
For those who know they will be returning to the studio, I have an additional option to help you be able to engage assplay with confidence. I’ve installed an inline douche hose on the toilet in the bathroom. I have a supply of new nozzles which attach to the hose. These nozzles can also be used in the shower by replacing the hand-held sprayer. These nozzles, connected to a water source, allow you to irrigate the anal cavity to ensure a cleaner assplay experience. These nozzles are meant to be reused and are made of flexible rubber. These are available for 15 dollars and can be stored at the studio for your future visit. They are available anytime during any visit, just ask and I’ll get you set with that. Using the inline hose is an easy and relaxing experience once you get the hang of it.
Start by taking three deep full-body breaths. Really focus on the breath itself. Feel your abdomen expand and your lungs. Notice the air moving through your nostrils. These breaths will help you to relax. Have your awareness fully on the breaths. It takes less than a minute so let everything else go and focus only the process of breathing.
Remember this is your ass you're dealing with here and so there is no need to be squeamish. For many, playing with their ass is taboo or nasty. Notice your reactions during this process and allow that to begin to help you release any baggage you might be holding on to related to your asshole. To be in touch with your body, you have to be in touch with all of your body.
You'll want to do this just shortly before any ass play. Within an hour to 30 minutes is ideal. This gives you time to allow any excess water to be released after you're done with the cleanse and helps to relax you for the ass play.
THE PROCESS (for bottle/bulb style usage)
Fill the bottle up with room temperature water (filtered water is the best because it is going inside after all) but tap is fine. One full bottle is enough for about a couple of rinses. Once filled, screw the nozzle on and you're ready to go. Begin your cleansing process by allowing yourself to empty your bowels like normal. Don't strain or force it, just allow anything that's ready to come out to get out before you start.
Generously lube the entire nozzle AND your asshole. You'll probably want to hover over the toilet for the rest of this process. Hold the bottle with the nozzle pointing up. Insert the nozzle into your asshole as deeply as you feel comfortable. You'll probably notice it goes in deeper with each rinse. Take your time with this, rushing only makes you more tense.
Bend forward and raise the bottle to a point where it begins to drain into you. Give it a 10-second or so count with gentle squeezing and then remove the nozzle before releasing any pressure on the bottle. Once the nozzle is outside your body, release the bottle then so that it doesn't draw contents from your anal cavity into the bottle. Hold the water for only 2-3 seconds and then expel it. Repeat this process but on the second or third round, stand up and roll your hips or shake yourself a bit. Do this with the nozzle removed but the water held inside. It doesn't have to be wild movements, just "rinsing" type moves. Evacuate that water. Do not hold the water in for extended periods of time. Repeat this process until the water comes out clean and then maybe once more after that. Make sure the nozzle stays well lubed.
THE PROCESS (for inline hoses)
Since water will be continuously flowing with this process, be certain that you have a good awareness of the method for regulating the water. First take a regular bowel movement without any straining. Next generously lubricate the nozzle completely as well as your asshole. Insert the nozzle a few inches and then slowly turn the water on.
At this point, there may be an instinct for your asshole to clamp down because suddenly your anal cavity is rapidly filling with water. Notice that and when it happens allow yourself to consciously push the water out with the hose still in your anus.
Allowing the anal cavity to fill without holding any water in is the objective here. You want the water to come in, rinse the cavity and the spill back out around the sides of the hose. When you have this flow going, you will be able to feel small pulses as any poop is leaving. Very quickly you will feel only water and you will be done. The process can take less than 1 minute.
If you will be doing any type of deeper assplay (larger cocks, toys or fisting), then you may want to do a few brief clenches while the hose is still inserted. Do these after you feel the water running clean and your ass is relaxed. This will cause the anal cavity to fill up and push into the lower colon. A clench should only be around 3-5 seconds and then release.
Take your time with this process. Let the experience relax you and cleanse you, not stress you out.
You don't want to fill your anal cavity up with water. That's too much. Just enough for a smaller rinse.
You don't want to lie on your side and absorb the water. The Fleet enema bottles will instruct you to do this because they are for enemas, not douching. That is only needed when you're trying to give yourself a regular enema as part of a deeper cleanse.
This is about cleaning the anal cavity, not your intestines. You don't want the water to stay in you for extended periods of time. Again, less is more here. Holding it in allows it to absorb into the anal tissues. That's not a bad thing but then you'll find you have to keep running back to the toilet. Water will be wanting out about 10 minutes later when the tissues release the excess water.
Quick rinses, small amounts of water and some gentle body shaking are the secrets here.
When the water is coming out clean then I would recommend inserting your well lubricated finger inside your asshole and feeling around. This may make you feel squeamish if this isn't something you're used to doing. Just ask yourself this: Would you rather find any obstructions now or have someone else find them later while you're getting your asshole played with? If you find anything remaining in the anal cavity, simply repeat the rinsing process a few more times and then check again.
Learning to be at peace with your asshole and its functions will help you be more at peace with assplay as well. It is all connected.