MEN'S EROTIC EDUCATION
This event is a clothing optional event. You MUST be on the guest list to get into this private party. Attendance is limited.
This event is about information sharing and education. The topics will change from event to event but will all have an erotic theme to them. The first hour will be used to discuss the topic at hand and answer questions. The remaining 2 hours will give attendees the opportunity to explore the topic for themselves through hands-on work with the other participants.
To register for this event, please drop me a line at
I’ll add you to my email list so that you get invites sent directly to you each month. This list is
ONLY used for these type events and never sold or shared for any reason. To be added to the email list please include a face photo with your email. Once I receive your email and photo, I’ll reply with directions to
the event and info to help you prepare for the evening. No prepayment or
deposits are required. Entry is limited to the first 20 guys who sign up. Payment is due upon entry into the event.
The doors will open from 4:30 – 5:00 for those who want to
attend the education hour at the beginning of the event. During this hour from
5-6 we’ll have someone who will be sharing information on a specific topic.
Please see the calendar of events below for the scheduled topics for each event.
$30 - Attend education and play session - Enter between 4:30 - 5
$10 - Attend only the education session - Enter between 4:30 - 5
I and any guest educator will be available during the play portion of the event to support you. We will
encourage, but not require, you to include the activity from the education
portion of the event into your play for that night. We learn through play and
so playing with what you’ve just learned helps you to fully embody the
knowledge. It’s a chance to learn from others some new ways to engage your play
and enhance your experiences. You are welcome to use the toys and equipment
that is available within the Crow’s Nest for your enjoyment. You are highly
encouraged to bring your own gear (for your use or to share) to make the
event as fun as possible for as many as possible.
One of the most powerful parts of this type of group
experience is that you have the eyes and attention of the others at the event.
If you open to that awareness you will discover that you are able to surrender
into the experience even with a total stranger because your safety is assured
by the group. It’s a chance to explore activities that you might not be able to
with one-on-one private experiences because you may choose to be bound or
blindfolded and so fear for your safety isn’t a concern because we’ve got lots
of eyes on you.
All of the play will happen in the main studio. This adds a certain intimacy to the experience despite the group nature. You'll see this for yourself when you attend. I provide lube, towels,
regular sized non-lubricated condoms and nitrile gloves. You are welcome to
bring any personal items that you would like to make your time more enjoyable.
Cockrings, specialty lubes, special condoms, poppers, dildo’s and cock toys which
you may have are absolutely welcome and encouraged. The more fun you have
individually the more fun the collective group can have. Bring what makes you
feel happy and sexy.
There will be complimentary snacks and
non-alcoholic beverages available at each event. You are welcome to bring a
bottle of wine or beer with you to share with the group but no other alcohol
please. Also, this is a non-smoking event.
Men of all shapes, sizes and ages
attend these events and seem to always feel comfortable because we create
community space and encourage openness with all those present. Anyone who is
disrupting the space, disrespecting others boundaries or in any way causing
trouble will be asked to leave and not return. There is no room for attitude at
these events because this is about creating community and sharing in the
brotherhood of men.
SUPPORT THE EVENT:
You are welcome and encouraged to
invite others to join us for the evening but they MUST BE on the guest list
beforehand as this is a private party. To get on the invite list for any event,
please drop me a line at
and I’ll get you added to our email list. This list is ONLY used for these
invites and never sold or used for any other purpose. Invites for each event go
out about 2 weeks before the event and only those who respond and request to be
on the guest list will be allowed in. The location of the event is in the SoDo
district in Seattle. You will be given specific instructions to get to the
space when you sign up to attend an event.
When does this event occur?
This event occurs on the second
(2nd) Sunday evening of each month. Doors open at 4:30pm. Education event
beings at 5pm. Open play begins at 6pm. Event ends at 8.
How many guys typically attend?
Based upon the size of the space, the
entry limit is set at 20 guys. Typically in any of the non-summer months (when
attendance is lower), we reach capacity and have a waiting list.
Do I have to attend both portions of the event?
No. To ensure that everyone has at least the same baseline of education on whatever the topic is, your attendance at the education portion is required to attend the play portion of the event. You may however choose to leave after the education portion which should be around 6.
Do I have to be naked?
No but you certainly may and I hope you will. Since this is
an erotic event nudity will be part of the experience.
As such, you are encouraged
to wear what makes you feel sexy but certainly complete nudity will be a part
of the evening by many. Feel free to wear any gear that helps you feel sexy and is on topic for the event.
What is the average age of attendees?
The majority of guys who attend are
typically between 45-55, the next largest group would be 35-45, 55+ and then
those below 35.
What is the average build of attendees?
As with the age, shape and size are in
a range. The average attendee is what I think of as "average Joe".
Like most of us in our 40's and 50's, we have a level of fitness but a bit of
softness as well. All shapes and sizes are welcome. It's important to remember
that this event is just for play and as such encouraging guys to let go of
their "type" and just enjoy those who are present is part of the
experience. You'll be amazed at how much more fun you have (here and in life)
when you stop seeking only your type and can find the sexiness in any man. You
are never required to erotically engage anyone.
Can I just come and watch?
For the educational portion of the
event from 5-6 you certainly can just watch. Once the open play portion of
the event begins it is for those who will engage at whatever level they are
comfortable with. Engagement is part of the experience. If your personal
limits, relationship boundaries or fears limit you from being able to engage
with the others present then this is not the event for you. You may want to
consider attending one of my lower intensity events instead.
What if I get an erection or have an
I hope you will enjoy them both. Both
of these are welcome experiences and a wonderful part of the evening. This
event is about creating a space where it is okay to be sexy, to feel good, to
connect with other men and create community. We come together as men to
celebrate all that makes us men and that includes erections.
Where is this event held?
The event is held in my private
work/play space called The Crow’s Nest Escape. It is located in the SoDo
District. You'll be given directions the space when you sign up for an event.
Can I just show up if I've been before
and know where it is?
No. Since there is nudity at this event
it is therefore considered a private party. You absolutely must be on the guest
list to get in especially since we have limited capacity even if you have
attended an event in the past.
Is this a “Safe Only” event?
No. Since this is an “adult only” event
however, I have no desire to enforce any type of activity. Condoms and gloves
are provided and their use is encouraged but not enforced. Since we are adults,
each attendee is responsible for expressing and monitoring their own boundaries
What about disease concerns?
I don’t monitor this at the group level
nor do I exclude guys who are HIV+/undetectable. Just like in the real world,
you are responsible for any risks that you take with anyone. If you are unsure,
don’t do it. Condoms and nitrile gloves are provided for you to protect
yourself as necessary.
Can I bring beer or wine?
Certainly. Non-alcoholic beverages are
available. No alcohol is served by the host. No liquor is allowed in
the event however. Also, anyone appearing/smelling intoxicated will NOT be
allowed in to the event.
Can I smoke pot, vape or consume
Certainly but just smoke/vape outside
in the private courtyard. Please be aware of how you handle yourself in an
altered state. If you are going to be doing impact play on someone, being
stoned may throw you off a bit and someone could get hurt. Just use your good
judgment. If anyone gets out of control however, you will be asked to leave for
the evening or just sit and watch.
CALENDAR OF EDUCATION TOPICS:
The schedule of topics is subject to change as we move forward. The eductional topic will be announced when the invites for the events go out and will be locked in at that point. I will update this page if any of the future scheduled topics change.
March 2018 -
Prostate massage and assplay
July 2018 - Becoming a multi-orgasmic male
Unscheduled future topics include:
Giving a sexy massage
Sensation play with sensory deprevation