MEN'S EROTIC TOUCH
This is a clothing optional event. You must be on the guest list to get into this private party. Attendance is limited.
Menís Erotic Touch is a gathering for fun, socializing,
pleasure and well-being. The event occurs on the second (2nd) Saturday of each scheduled month. The event is clothing optional. No massage skills
are required but rather a willingness to sensually touch and be touched is all
that is necessary. There will be complimentary snacks and beverages available at each event. You are welcome to bring a
bottle of wine or beer with you to share with the group but no other
To register for this event, please drop me a line at
Iíll add you to my email list so that you get invites sent directly to you each month. This list is
ONLY used for these type events and never sold or shared for any reason. To be added to the email list please include a face photo with your email.
Once I receive your email and photo, Iíll reply with directions to
the event and info to help you prepare for the evening. No prepayment or
deposits are required. Entry is limited to the first 16 guys who sign up. Payment is due upon entry into the event.
open for the event at 1:30 and close again at 2 so please plan your arrival
accordingly. The activities will begin promptly at 2. No entries will be
permitted after the event begins but you are free to leave at any time. The
event is schedule to end at 5pm. The cost for the event is a sliding scale from 20 - 30 dollars.
You decide what you can pay in that range. If you have been before and bring a new man to the event (or if you are both new), you can both get in for a total of 30 bucks. Please plan to arrive together. Buddy up and save. Cash only please.
The event is about sharing space with other men in a relaxing and yet erotic
environment. This is a sexy event but not a sex-based event. This means that
mutual full-body erotic touch, erections and even orgasms are welcomed but
fucking is not part of the event. There will be music playing throughout the
event. You are welcome to sit and chat or engage in any of the activities
being offered. Your level of engagement is entirely up to you.
Please be aware that this is a group event and as such pairing off for private
play is not what the event is about. Itís an event to share mindful touch
with awareness and presence in a group setting.
These events are very intimate despite the fact that there many men in the room with you. The intimacy comes from being in the same room with these men and sharing intimate, erotic space together. Unlike bathhouses or large events, the number of attendees, size of the room and intention for the evening, brings the group together rather than allowing everyone to disburse around a larger area.
At this event rather than have the focus be about standard massage, this is about erotic
touch. That can include massage/bodywork but it can also include cock
stimulation (teasing, edging), prostate/anal massage, mutual masturbation,
massage/play, cuddling, holding, nipple play, or anything similar to these options. There will be 3 massage tables and a bed available for everyones use.
are welcome and encouraged to invite others to join us for the event but they
must be on the guest list beforehand as this is a private party.
To get on the invite list for any event, please drop me a line at
The location of the event is in theSoDo district just south of downtown Seattle.
I've created a locker room for you to put your belonging and clothing in. There are small lockers and locks available. You are welcome to bring your own lock as well.
All the play will happen in the main studio. This adds a certain intimacy to the experience despite the group nature. You'll see this for yourself when you attend. I provide lube, oil, nitrile gloves and towels.
You are welcome to bring any personal items that you would like to make your
time more enjoyable. Cockrings, specialty lubes, poppers,
and cock toys which you may have are absolutely welcome and encouraged.
The more fun you have individually the more fun the collective group can have. Bring what makes you feel happy and sexy.
There will be complimentary snacks and non-alcoholic beverages available at each event. You are welcome to
bring a bottle of wine or beer with you to share with the group but no other
alcohol please. Also, this is a non-smoking event.
of all shapes, sizes and ages attend these events and seem to always feel
comfortable because we create community space and encourage openness with all
those present. Anyone who is disrupting the space, disrespecting others
boundaries or in any way causing trouble will be asked to leave and not return.
There is no room for attitude at these events because this is about creating
community and sharing in the brotherhood of men.
When does this event occur?
This event occurs monthly on the second (2nd) Saturday of each month. Doors open at 1:30pm. Event beings at 2pm. Event ends at 5pm.
How many guys typically attend?
Based upon the size of the space,
the entry limit is set at 16 guys. Typically in any of the summer months
(when attendance is a higher), there are about 12-16 guys who attend each month and occassionally a waiting list.
Do I have to be naked?
Yes. This is an evening of
erotic touch so having your skin exposed is the objective. Being in a space
like this with other naked guys is a way to release any of the body image issues
that we hold onto. You may choose to wear socks but eventually everyone being nude is the objective of the event. Be aware that being the only one wearing clothing in a room of naked men draws the attention to you rather than away from you.
What is the average age of attendees?
The majority of guys who attend are
typically between 45-55, the next largest group would be 35-45, 55+ and then
those below 35.
What is the average build/size of attendees?
As with the age, shape and size are in a range. The average attendee is what I think of as "average Joe". Like most of us in our 40's and 50's, we have a level of fitness but a bit of softness as well. All shapes and sizes are welcome. It's important to remember that this event is just for play and as such encouraging guys to let go of their "type" and just enjoy those who are present is part of the experience. You'll be amazed at how much more fun you have (here and in life) when you stop seeking only your type and can find the sexiness in any man.
Is this a sex party?
No. This is a sexy party however. While orgasms happen during the event, it is not a requirement nor forbidden. Erotic manual and oral stimulation are an optional and acceptable part of the
evening, however neither should become the focus. Itís about allowing yourself to receive
touch and stimulation at your comfort level.
What happens if I get an erection or have an orgasm?
I hope you will enjoy them both. Both of these are welcome
experiences and a wonderful part of the evening. This event is about creating a
space where it is okay to be sexy, to feel good, to connect with other men and
create community. We come together as men to celebrate all that makes us men
and that includes erections.
Can I bring a favorite toy of mine?
Yes. Please bring anything that you
want with you. For this event, that would include things like cockrings and vibrators. This is not the event to bring impact toys or dildos. If you are unsure, drop me an email before bringing it
and I can let you know my thoughts on it.
Can I just receive touch and not have to give it?
No. This evening is about sharing. Everyone will be given the
opportunity to receive touch at least once during the evening but that goes with
the expectation that you will return the pleasure and be a giver before or after. If during the
course of the evening there is no one waiting for their turn then you are welcome to go back onto a table and receive some more.
Can I just be a giver?
Yes. While it is my hope that
everyone will take a turn at expressing their desires and allowing themselves
to receive, but being a receiver is not a requirement. All too often we resist
allowing ourselves to be the center of attention based upon past
woundings/hurt/shame. This type of experience is about pushing through those issues
and surrendering into receiving all the pleasure that the many sexy men who are
present have in store for you.
Where is this event held?
The event is held in my private work
studio in the SoDo district of Seattle. Directions will be given when you register
for an event.
Can I just show up if I know where it is held?
No. Since there is nudity at this
event it is therefore considered a private party. You absolutely must be on the
guest list to get in especially since we have a limited capacity. This is true
whether you have or have not been to an event in the past. Each event is
Do I need to know how to give a massage to attend?
No. This is more about erotic touch
than any particular type of massage technique or skill. Giving and receiving
erotic touch is something that we learn and refine our skills at over time.
This event is a great place to explore that type of touch in an open and
Can I bring beer or wine?
Certainly. Non-alcoholic beverages
are available. No alcohol is served by the host. No liquor is allowed in the
event however. Also, anyone appearing/smelling intoxicated will NOT be allowed
into the event.
Can I smoke pot, vape or consume edibles?
Certainly but just smoke/vape outside in the private courtyard. Please be aware of how you handle yourself in an altered state and use your good judgment. If you get out of control however you will be asked to leave.